Jan Deelstra

Unleash your inner goddess power and transform your story into a masterpiece of confidence, self love, abundance and limitless possibilities—because YOU 're the author of your extraordinary life

About Jan

Hello, and welcome to my “about” page. In the event you don’t know me, I’ll start by introducing myself as Jan Deelstra, and let you know how I can possibly be of service to you, personally.

Candidly, I’ll tell you that I rose from a life of insecurity, poverty, and victimization to become the confident, empowered founder of Winged-Women™ Academy. Now, as an international best-selling transformational author and advocate for women, I guide others to own their confidence, embrace their worth, and transform their lives with self-worth, freedom, purpose, and possibility.

In short, I’ve made a beautiful life by sharing my soul-based, spirit enhancing transformational tools with women who are eager to identify and release unhealthy, limiting beliefs, and to confidently and consciously create the life desired and deserved.
(Is this you? If so, you’re in the right place.)

Unapologetically, I will state that I have a passion for helping women rediscover their self-worth and embrace their authentic power. ALL of my creative content–books, eBooks, workbooks, podcasts, courses, blog posts, and offers are designed to empower women like you, with an arsenal of empowering tools that inspire transformation.

My personal journey has been one of turning struggles into strengths. It’s sometimes been a life experience of intense and difficult lessons, yet every single experience, regardless of how hard it may have been, came with its own reward. There is, I’ve discovered, a gift in even the worst events of our lives. It takes some reflection and insight, but I promise you, there is a blessing in the mire of every challenge. And each of these gifts are important pieces to your ultimate transformation. As an example, I will share that my first book, Blessings in the Mire: A True Story of Miracles & Recollections, came from the grief of losing my son to suicide. It took years to unearth the “gift” in the death of my child. I know it would sound laughable, if it weren’t so absurd. Eventually however, I was able to find the love that out weighs the indescribable pain, and come from the strength of my scars rather than from the gaping wound itself. There is tremendous power in that discovery.

My transformation has been one not unlike that of the butterfly–thus, the founding of the Winged-Women™ movement. The butterfly must struggle to break free of the very cocoon that fed and housed it, before it can spread its glorious wings. And that’s the way I feel about my personal metamorphosis, and about each and every one of the women I have been blessed to assist along the way. There is nothing more beautiful, in my estimation, than when a woman discovers her true self–discovers her confidence, learns to love and believe in herself, and embraces the rare glorious power that lies in her unique authenticity.

The tools that I discovered through my own transformation, I now share with any woman who wants to embrace her full-winged life–to live in beautiful, creative abundance, with just a few new awarenesses and gentle guidance. The life-changing self-worth enhancing processes that I have incorporated into my self-love toolbox are designed to build confidence, to enhance levels of self-love, and in short, to encourage expansive living, even if you’re an introvert (like I am!).

I believe that every woman has the ability to rewrite her own narrative and to soar in ways yet undreamed of. I believe this, because it happened for me. And it can happen for you too.

Whether you’re looking to manifest extreme confidence, financial independence, or fulfilling relationships, my mission–indeed, my life’s purpose and calling is to guide you toward the life you desire and deserve—one filled with courage, love, abundance, and limitless possibilities.

My intent for you, when you join the tribe of winged-women, is that you live a delicious life–one that feeds your soul and your bank account. It is that you follow a soul-feeding pathway of self-love and confidence, and that you then ripple that powerful frequency of self-love and unapologetic confidence outward, blessing all others who are blessed to cross your path.

Are you ready to consciously create the life you desire and deserve? Let’s create your next chapter together! Start by subscribing to the blog so you can start to receive empowering content. And visit the TOOLBOX to see what resonates. You deserve the life you desire. Start today. See you in the BLOG!

Jan Deelstra

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Empowering women to own their confidence, self-worth & abundance. Int'l Best-Selling Author/CEO of Winged-Women™ Academy. Click links for confidence!
  • Did you catch the blog post, The Feminine Frequency of Abundance? It's the post that you DO want to check out: 

https://jandeelstra.com/the-feminine-frequency-of-abundance/

Just copy and paste the link, or go to JanDeelstra.com/BLOG for more! Of course, the website is on my bio link.

#infinitepie #womenandmoney #femininefrequencyofmoney #abundance #JanDeelstra
  • Do YOU have shame around issues of money? If so, go over to my website and read the post from a few days ago. If failed to load, so I'm posting this IG post to encourage anyone who may have missed it,to check it out. Copy and paste the link or simply type into your browser: 

https://jandeelstra.com/healing-money-shame/

Historically, women especially, have experienced a unique set of money challenges. Does this resonate? Check out the post, and while you're there, SUBSCRIBE.

#womensempowerment #confidence #womenandmoney #money #moneyshame #feminineenergy #jandeelstra #healingmoneywounds #moneyisselflove #moneeyisfreedom
  • Breaking the Myth of Selfishness: How to Prioitize Your SELF without Guilt is fresh off the BLOG press at:

https://jandeelstra.com/breaking-the-myth-of-selfishness/ 
(Copy and paste it to learn more)

If you feel guilt, if you put yourself last, if you have bought into the idea that doing what's in YOUR best interest is "selfish" it's time for you to re-define selfish into self-care. 

Go now, and while you're there, subscribe to the BLOG. 

#redefiningselfish #prioritizeyourhealth #prioritizeyourhealth #prioritizeyou 
#jandeelstra.com/BLOG #breakingthemythofselfishness #hotoprioritizeyourselfwithoutguilt #guilt
  • There’s no such thing as a small step. Every step you take moves you forward and puts your goals within reach. #goals #womensupportingwomen #womensempowerment #liveauthentic #reachyourgoals
  • “The secret to change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” -Socrates
 
I posted this today because it seems natural, at the first of every year, to look at ways to change whatever isn't working the way we think it should be working. Too often, things are not progressing the way we intend them to progress, because we are too busy focusing on all that is "wrong" instead of focusing on what IS working. 

If we can re-train our brains (and specifically, the reticular activator) to focus on what we DO want and NOT on what we DON'T want, our brain (subconscious or superconscious) gets on board to help us achieve what it is that we DO want. 

The truth is, it's simple. But the habit of being miserable, of experiencing lack, or of commiserating about what's missing, or simply the habit of being content in the level of familiar lack, gets in the way, and further affirms the frequency of lack. And then we can complain some more, and the cycle continues.... 

I challenge you to a 30 day commitment to consciously express gratitude daily at the moment you wake and again just before falling asleep. Allow the old neural pathways that have strengthened by incessant drumming of the beat "Not enough. Not enough. Not enough" to die out, and start building super highways that allow for more than enough. 

Check in with me (and with yourself) around mid February and let me know what's changed. When you place your focused energy "on building the new" as Socrates suggests, you'll no doubt experience superior progress towards whateve it is that you are now consciously manifesting.

Come and play in the playground. https://JanDeelstra.com

#focusonyourgoals 
#quotes #socrates #womensempowerment #growthmindset #selflove #energy #focus #changeyourlife #changequotes #newyear #manifestation #manifestyourdreams #relationshipwithself #manifesting #manifestingdreams
  • Your self-worth is your superpower! 

Need help with that? Don't waste another day of feeling unworthy and undeserving. Start immediately. Copy and paste the url into your browser and start to heal your life:

https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG 

SUBSCRIBE for juicy, confidence bolstering, self-love enhancement.

#selflove #selfmade #selfworth #confidence #selfesteem
#jandeelstra
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🌟 What We Focus On Expands 🌟

Ever noticed how the more you focus on the good, the more good you seem to find? That’s not just a coincidence—it’s the magic of gratitude in action. And as we approach a new year, there’s no better time to refocus your energy on what truly matters: the blessings in your life.

That’s why I’m thrilled to offer you My Gratitude Planner—a completely FREE tool to help you nurture a daily gratitude practice that changes everything.

What’s inside?
✔️ 365 days of guided prompts and open space to reflect on what you’re most thankful for.
✔️ Gentle reminders to shift your mindset, even on those tough days when gratitude feels out of reach.
✔️ A practice that helps you notice and expand the abundance already surrounding you.

Why gratitude?
Because it’s not always easy to feel thankful—especially when life gets messy. But it’s in those exact moments when gratitude becomes the lifeline that pulls us back to center. By writing down what we’re grateful for, we create a ripple effect, calling even more positivity, love, and abundance into our lives.

Imagine stepping into the new year with a heart full of gratitude and a clear focus on all the beauty life offers. Imagine feeling grounded, abundant, and aware of the everyday miracles around you. That’s what this planner is here to help you do.

How to get yours?
It’s my gift to you! Just click the link in my bio (UNDER FREE STUFF) to download your FREE 365-Day Gratitude Planner today. 🎁

💬 Your turn!
Comment below: What’s one thing you’re grateful for right now? Let’s start this gratitude practice together.

Here’s to a year of blessings, joy, and focusing on what truly matters.

#GratitudePlanner #FreeDownload #MindsetShift #DailyGratitude #ManifestAbundance #GratefulHeart #GratitudePractice #WingedWomen #SelfLoveJourney #free #EmpowermentTools #ConfidenceBuilding #PersonalGrowthJourney #WomenSupportingWomen
  • I made "Your Financial Affirmations" audio MP3 and included the transcript that you can use to record the affirmations in your own voice. 

And then, apparently, life happened and I failed to add the post to Instagram. Anyhoo, if you're interested you can check it out by clicking the link in my Linktr.ee in bio, or on my website (also linked in bio). You may want it to start your new year out right, with positive affirmations.

Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to the BLOG when you visit https://jandeelstra.com and get valuable content delivered right into your inbox!

#manifestation #manifestyourdesires
#affirmations #audio #jandeelstra #womensempowerment #positiveaffirmations #newyear
  • Rest in peace Pat Deelstra. It’s impossible to fathom that you are really gone. November 25, 1940-December 26, 2024.
Did you catch the blog post, The Feminine Frequency of Abundance? It's the post that you DO want to check out: 

https://jandeelstra.com/the-feminine-frequency-of-abundance/

Just copy and paste the link, or go to JanDeelstra.com/BLOG for more! Of course, the website is on my bio link.

#infinitepie #womenandmoney #femininefrequencyofmoney #abundance #JanDeelstra
Did you catch the blog post, The Feminine Frequency of Abundance? It's the post that you DO want to check out: https://jandeelstra.com/the-feminine-frequency-of-abundance/ Just copy and paste the link, or go to JanDeelstra.com/BLOG for more! Of course, the website is on my bio link. #infinitepie #womenandmoney #femininefrequencyofmoney #abundance #JanDeelstra
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Do YOU have shame around issues of money? If so, go over to my website and read the post from a few days ago. If failed to load, so I'm posting this IG post to encourage anyone who may have missed it,to check it out. Copy and paste the link or simply type into your browser: 

https://jandeelstra.com/healing-money-shame/

Historically, women especially, have experienced a unique set of money challenges. Does this resonate? Check out the post, and while you're there, SUBSCRIBE.

#womensempowerment #confidence #womenandmoney #money #moneyshame #feminineenergy #jandeelstra #healingmoneywounds #moneyisselflove #moneeyisfreedom
Do YOU have shame around issues of money? If so, go over to my website and read the post from a few days ago. If failed to load, so I'm posting this IG post to encourage anyone who may have missed it,to check it out. Copy and paste the link or simply type into your browser: https://jandeelstra.com/healing-money-shame/ Historically, women especially, have experienced a unique set of money challenges. Does this resonate? Check out the post, and while you're there, SUBSCRIBE. #womensempowerment #confidence #womenandmoney #money #moneyshame #feminineenergy #jandeelstra #healingmoneywounds #moneyisselflove #moneeyisfreedom
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Breaking the Myth of Selfishness: How to Prioitize Your SELF without Guilt is fresh off the BLOG press at:

https://jandeelstra.com/breaking-the-myth-of-selfishness/ 
(Copy and paste it to learn more)

If you feel guilt, if you put yourself last, if you have bought into the idea that doing what's in YOUR best interest is "selfish" it's time for you to re-define selfish into self-care. 

Go now, and while you're there, subscribe to the BLOG. 

#redefiningselfish #prioritizeyourhealth #prioritizeyourhealth #prioritizeyou 
#jandeelstra.com/BLOG #breakingthemythofselfishness #hotoprioritizeyourselfwithoutguilt #guilt
Breaking the Myth of Selfishness: How to Prioitize Your SELF without Guilt is fresh off the BLOG press at: https://jandeelstra.com/breaking-the-myth-of-selfishness/ (Copy and paste it to learn more) If you feel guilt, if you put yourself last, if you have bought into the idea that doing what's in YOUR best interest is "selfish" it's time for you to re-define selfish into self-care. Go now, and while you're there, subscribe to the BLOG. #redefiningselfish #prioritizeyourhealth #prioritizeyourhealth #prioritizeyou #jandeelstra.com/BLOG #breakingthemythofselfishness #hotoprioritizeyourselfwithoutguilt #guilt
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There’s no such thing as a small step. Every step you take moves you forward and puts your goals within reach. #goals #womensupportingwomen #womensempowerment #liveauthentic #reachyourgoals
There’s no such thing as a small step. Every step you take moves you forward and puts your goals within reach. #goals #womensupportingwomen #womensempowerment #liveauthentic #reachyourgoals
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“The secret to change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” -Socrates I posted this today because it seems natural, at the first of every year, to look at ways to change whatever isn't working the way we think it should be working. Too often, things are not progressing the way we intend them to progress, because we are too busy focusing on all that is "wrong" instead of focusing on what IS working. If we can re-train our brains (and specifically, the reticular activator) to focus on what we DO want and NOT on what we DON'T want, our brain (subconscious or superconscious) gets on board to help us achieve what it is that we DO want. The truth is, it's simple. But the habit of being miserable, of experiencing lack, or of commiserating about what's missing, or simply the habit of being content in the level of familiar lack, gets in the way, and further affirms the frequency of lack. And then we can complain some more, and the cycle continues…. I challenge you to a 30 day commitment to consciously express gratitude daily at the moment you wake and again just before falling asleep. Allow the old neural pathways that have strengthened by incessant drumming of the beat "Not enough. Not enough. Not enough" to die out, and start building super highways that allow for more than enough. Check in with me (and with yourself) around mid February and let me know what's changed. When you place your focused energy "on building the new" as Socrates suggests, you'll no doubt experience superior progress towards whateve it is that you are now consciously manifesting. Come and play in the playground. https://JanDeelstra.com #focusonyourgoals #quotes #socrates #womensempowerment #growthmindset #selflove #energy #focus #changeyourlife #changequotes #newyear #manifestation #manifestyourdreams #relationshipwithself #manifesting #manifestingdreams
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Your self-worth is your superpower! Need help with that? Don't waste another day of feeling unworthy and undeserving. Start immediately. Copy and paste the url into your browser and start to heal your life: https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG SUBSCRIBE for juicy, confidence bolstering, self-love enhancement. #selflove #selfmade #selfworth #confidence #selfesteem #jandeelstra
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(Keep Reading for FREE OFFER!)

🌟 What We Focus On Expands 🌟

Ever noticed how the more you focus on the good, the more good you seem to find? That’s not just a coincidence—it’s the magic of gratitude in action. And as we approach a new year, there’s no better time to refocus your energy on what truly matters: the blessings in your life.

That’s why I’m thrilled to offer you My Gratitude Planner—a completely FREE tool to help you nurture a daily gratitude practice that changes everything.

What’s inside?
✔️ 365 days of guided prompts and open space to reflect on what you’re most thankful for.
✔️ Gentle reminders to shift your mindset, even on those tough days when gratitude feels out of reach.
✔️ A practice that helps you notice and expand the abundance already surrounding you.

Why gratitude?
Because it’s not always easy to feel thankful—especially when life gets messy. But it’s in those exact moments when gratitude becomes the lifeline that pulls us back to center. By writing down what we’re grateful for, we create a ripple effect, calling even more positivity, love, and abundance into our lives.

Imagine stepping into the new year with a heart full of gratitude and a clear focus on all the beauty life offers. Imagine feeling grounded, abundant, and aware of the everyday miracles around you. That’s what this planner is here to help you do.

How to get yours?
It’s my gift to you! Just click the link in my bio (UNDER FREE STUFF) to download your FREE 365-Day Gratitude Planner today. 🎁

💬 Your turn!
Comment below: What’s one thing you’re grateful for right now? Let’s start this gratitude practice together.

Here’s to a year of blessings, joy, and focusing on what truly matters.

#GratitudePlanner #FreeDownload #MindsetShift #DailyGratitude #ManifestAbundance #GratefulHeart #GratitudePractice #WingedWomen #SelfLoveJourney #free #EmpowermentTools #ConfidenceBuilding #PersonalGrowthJourney #WomenSupportingWomen
(Keep Reading for FREE OFFER!) 🌟 What We Focus On Expands 🌟 Ever noticed how the more you focus on the good, the more good you seem to find? That’s not just a coincidence—it’s the magic of gratitude in action. And as we approach a new year, there’s no better time to refocus your energy on what truly matters: the blessings in your life. That’s why I’m thrilled to offer you My Gratitude Planner—a completely FREE tool to help you nurture a daily gratitude practice that changes everything. What’s inside? ✔️ 365 days of guided prompts and open space to reflect on what you’re most thankful for. ✔️ Gentle reminders to shift your mindset, even on those tough days when gratitude feels out of reach. ✔️ A practice that helps you notice and expand the abundance already surrounding you. Why gratitude? Because it’s not always easy to feel thankful—especially when life gets messy. But it’s in those exact moments when gratitude becomes the lifeline that pulls us back to center. By writing down what we’re grateful for, we create a ripple effect, calling even more positivity, love, and abundance into our lives. Imagine stepping into the new year with a heart full of gratitude and a clear focus on all the beauty life offers. Imagine feeling grounded, abundant, and aware of the everyday miracles around you. That’s what this planner is here to help you do. How to get yours? It’s my gift to you! Just click the link in my bio (UNDER FREE STUFF) to download your FREE 365-Day Gratitude Planner today. 🎁 💬 Your turn! Comment below: What’s one thing you’re grateful for right now? Let’s start this gratitude practice together. Here’s to a year of blessings, joy, and focusing on what truly matters. #GratitudePlanner #FreeDownload #MindsetShift #DailyGratitude #ManifestAbundance #GratefulHeart #GratitudePractice #WingedWomen #SelfLoveJourney #free #EmpowermentTools #ConfidenceBuilding #PersonalGrowthJourney #WomenSupportingWomen
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I made "Your Financial Affirmations" audio MP3 and included the transcript that you can use to record the affirmations in your own voice. 

And then, apparently, life happened and I failed to add the post to Instagram. Anyhoo, if you're interested you can check it out by clicking the link in my Linktr.ee in bio, or on my website (also linked in bio). You may want it to start your new year out right, with positive affirmations.

Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to the BLOG when you visit https://jandeelstra.com and get valuable content delivered right into your inbox!

#manifestation #manifestyourdesires
#affirmations #audio #jandeelstra #womensempowerment #positiveaffirmations #newyear
I made "Your Financial Affirmations" audio MP3 and included the transcript that you can use to record the affirmations in your own voice. And then, apparently, life happened and I failed to add the post to Instagram. Anyhoo, if you're interested you can check it out by clicking the link in my Linktr.ee in bio, or on my website (also linked in bio). You may want it to start your new year out right, with positive affirmations. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to the BLOG when you visit https://jandeelstra.com and get valuable content delivered right into your inbox! #manifestation #manifestyourdesires #affirmations #audio #jandeelstra #womensempowerment #positiveaffirmations #newyear
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Rest in peace Pat Deelstra. It’s impossible to fathom that you are really gone. November 25, 1940-December 26, 2024.
Rest in peace Pat Deelstra. It’s impossible to fathom that you are really gone. November 25, 1940-December 26, 2024.
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