Jan Deelstra

Unleash your inner goddess power and transform your story into a masterpiece of confidence, self love, abundance and limitless possibilities—because YOU 're the author of your extraordinary life

I Sell TRANSFORMATION

Lasting. Beautifully Life-Changing. Transformation.

(If real transformation is what you seek, you’re in the right place)

About Jan

Hello, and welcome to my “about” page. In the event you don’t know me, I’ll start by introducing myself as Jan Deelstra, and let you know how I can possibly be of service to you, personally.

I help high-achieving women break free from the invisible barriers holding them back so they can finally feel as confident on the inside as they appear on the outside—unshakable, self-assured, and unapologetically enough. This isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a proven process. And it works. It’s worked for thousands of high-achieving women, and it can work for you.

Candidly, I’ll tell you that I rose from a life of insecurity, poverty, and victimization to become the confident, empowered founder of Winged-Women™ Academy. Now, as an international best-selling transformational author and advocate for women, I guide others to own their confidence, embrace their worth, and transform their lives with self-worth, freedom, purpose, and possibility.

In short, I’ve made a beautiful life by sharing my soul-based, spirit enhancing transformational tools with women who are eager to identify and release unhealthy, limiting beliefs, and to confidently and consciously create the life desired and deserved.
(Is this you? If so, you’re in the right place.)

Unapologetically, I will state that I have a passion for helping women rediscover their self-worth and embrace their authentic power. ALL of my creative content–books, eBooks, workbooks, podcasts, courses, blog posts, and offers are designed to empower women like you, with an arsenal of empowering tools that inspire transformation.

My personal journey has been one of turning struggles into strengths. It’s sometimes been a life experience of intense and difficult lessons, yet every single experience, regardless of how hard it may have been, came with its own reward. There is, I’ve discovered, a gift in even the worst events of our lives. It takes some reflection and insight, but I promise you, there is a blessing in the mire of every challenge. And each of these gifts are important pieces to your ultimate transformation. As an example, I will share that my first book, Blessings in the Mire: A True Story of Miracles & Recollections, came from the grief of losing my son to suicide. It took years to unearth the “gift” in the death of my child. I know it would sound laughable, if it weren’t so absurd. Eventually however, I was able to find the love that out weighs the indescribable pain, and come from the strength of my scars rather than from the gaping wound itself. There is tremendous power in that discovery.

My transformation has been one not unlike that of the butterfly–thus, the founding of the Winged-Women™ movement. The butterfly must struggle to break free of the very cocoon that fed and housed it, before it can spread its glorious wings. And that’s the way I feel about my personal metamorphosis, and about each and every one of the women I have been blessed to assist along the way. There is nothing more beautiful, in my estimation, than when a woman discovers her true self–discovers her confidence, learns to love and believe in herself, and embraces the rare glorious power that lies in her unique authenticity.

The tools that I discovered through my own transformation, I now share with any woman who wants to embrace her full-winged life–to live in beautiful, creative abundance, with just a few new awarenesses and gentle guidance. The life-changing self-worth enhancing processes that I have incorporated into my self-love toolbox are designed to build confidence, to enhance levels of self-love, and in short, to encourage expansive living, even if you’re an introvert (like I am!).

I believe that every woman has the ability to rewrite her own narrative and to soar in ways yet undreamed of. I believe this, because it happened for me. And it can happen for you too.

Whether you’re looking to manifest extreme confidence, financial independence, or fulfilling relationships, my mission–indeed, my life’s purpose and calling is to guide you toward the life you desire and deserve—one filled with courage, love, abundance, and limitless possibilities.

My intent for you, when you join the tribe of winged-women, is that you live a delicious life–one that feeds your soul and your bank account. It is that you follow a soul-feeding pathway of self-love and confidence, and that you then ripple that powerful frequency of self-love and unapologetic confidence outward, blessing all others who are blessed to cross your path.

Are you ready to consciously create the life you desire and deserve? Let’s create your next chapter together! Start by subscribing to the blog so you can start to receive empowering content. And visit the TOOLBOX to see what resonates. You deserve the life you desire. Start today. See you in the BLOG!

Jan Deelstra

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Empowering women to own their confidence, self-worth & abundance. Int'l Best-Selling Author/CEO of Winged-Women™ Academy. Click links for confidence!
  • If you're in the Northern Hemisphere, enjoy the longest day of the year. There's something soul-feeding about today, so take some time to enjoy!
Happy Solstice!

#solstice
#longestday #longestdayoftheyear
#summerlovin #summervibes
  • It's Memorial Day weekend in the States, and that means "woo hoo summer is here!"

It also means, we honor those who fought and died to defend democracy—something that has never appeared so fragile as it is now.

My blog post today is a stream of consciousness that came from my morning meditation. I am reminded to pick only gently at the scabs of loss, and to honor the memory of those who have passed, from war and other causes.

If you're one of the millions celebrating the onset of Summer, take a beat and remember the reason for the holiday. 

And then, enjoy the festivities...

To read the blog post, go to: 
https://jandeelstra.com/wounds/

#memorialday #memories #inlovingmemory #healingjourney #healing #lossiscumulative #jandeelstra
  • Hey, I'm looking for no more than 3-5 women who are ready to break free of whatever is holding you back from living life to the fullest.
You’ve felt the chains long enough—self-doubt, fear, playing small.
In just 90 days or less, we end that "stuck" cycle.
My signature breakthrough program is normally $2997
—Today? $888.
This offer vanishes when my schedule fills.
DM “empowered” now if you’re ready to rise. @jan_deelstra
Subject to interview to see of we're a good fit for services, and to space constraints.
Learn more at https://JanDeelstra.com and complete an online application.
  • When "SUCCESS" isn't enough, there is a hidden longing that gnaws inside, and it's time to address that longing.
Read more on the blog:
https://jandeelstra.com/when-success-isnt-enough/

#womensupportingwomen #womensempowerment #womensempowermentcoach
#womenempoweringwomen #tipsforsuccess #tipsforwomen #supportforsuccessfulwomen
#womeninspiringwomen #youarenotbroken #selflove #selfawareness #confidence #womensconfidencecoach #whensuccessisntenough
  • Live life like you mean it.

Not halfway.
Not waiting for the right time, or the perfect body, or someone else's permission.
Not stuck in roles that feel more like cages than callings.

This is your one, sacred, unrepeatable life.
And that whisper you keep hearing?
It’s your soul reminding you:
You were made for more.

✨ More depth.
✨ More confidence.
✨ More intimacy with your truth.
✨ More joy that doesn’t require justification.

You didn’t come this far just to plateau in a pretty prison. You came to RISE.
To own your voice. To love out loud. To live like you mean it.

And if you’re a woman who has checked all the boxes—career, home, success on paper—but still feels a silent ache inside, you're not alone.

You’re exactly who I created Winged-Women™ Academy for.

At JanDeelstra.com, you’ll find transformative tools, empowering courses, and deeply healing words that awaken what’s already within you—your confidence, your clarity, your radiance.

This isn’t about fixing you. You were never broken.
It’s about unleashing the real you—the one who has quietly waited beneath the surface to finally exhale.

💻 Visit JanDeelstra.com today and take the next bold step toward your most authentic, unapologetic self.

Because you deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

You didn’t come here to merely exist.
You came here to live like you mean it.

#LiveLikeYouMeanIt #WingedWomen #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceIsQueen #SelfLoveRevolution #SoulAwakening #JanDeelstra #DivineFeminine #LiveYourTruth #UnapologeticallyYou #EmpoweredWoman #LifeOnPurpose #HealGrowRise #ManifestationCoach #ConfidenceCoach #WomenSupportingWomen
  • What Cinco de Mayo Can Teach You About Quiet Confidence

On this Cinco de Mayo, I honor the rising feminine—the quiet storms, the sacred risers, the women who reclaim their power without applause.

Most people think Cinco de Mayo is just margaritas and mariachi. But its real meaning? Victory against the odds.🔥

It commemorates a wildly outnumbered army that refused to believe they were already defeated. They didn’t wait to feel “ready.” They just rose up—and won.

Sound familiar?

Because I work with brilliant, soulful women—women who look successful on the outside but carry invisible battles on the inside.

They’ve:
✨ Raised families on their own
✨ Walked away from lives that looked perfect but felt like prisons
✨ Survived betrayal, burnout, and breakdowns—without missing a beat

No fanfare. No celebration. Just quiet courage.

So today, on a day that honors unexpected triumph, I invite YOU to celebrate the quiet storm inside you.

Confidence isn’t loud. It isn’t perfect.
It’s a whisper that says: I’m rising anyway.

You may not have the medals or the marching band, but you are a force to be reckoned with.

🦋 Your story matters.
🦋 Your strength is sacred.
🦋 And your time? It’s NOW.

This isn't about bravado. It's about finally recognizing that the woman who’s always held it together… deserves to be fully seen, fully expressed, and fully supported.

If you’re ready to reclaim your feminine fire, you’ll want to read today’s new post over at the blog.

It’s a love letter to the woman who’s still rising—one quiet victory at a time.

Tap the link in bio or head straight to: https://jandeelstra.com/blog

You are not an "underdog". YOU are a Sacred Riser: A woman who allows her passion to fuel her purpose.
You are an unseen powerhouse—until now. 

#WingedWomen #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceIsKey #FemininePower #SelfWorth #ConfidenceCoach #RiseUp #UnapologeticallyYou #EmpoweredWomenEmpowerWomen #CincoDeMayo #DivineFeminine #HealingJourney #QuietConfidence #SelfLoveJourney #PersonalPower #SuccessWithSoul #JanDeelstra #WingedWomenAcademy #MoneyAndLove #ConfidenceTools #TransformYourLife #WomenWhoRise
  • SHAME is Stealing Your Life. Here’s How to Take It Back.

You may not even realize you’re carrying it…

But if you’ve ever:

✨ Felt “not enough” no matter how much you do
✨ Struggled with money, love, or your weight
✨ Sabotaged your success without knowing why
✨ Stayed silent when you wanted to speak
✨ Felt guilt just for wanting more out of life…

The truth is, you're probably living with shame that’s not even yours.

Shame is a silent saboteur passed down like a family heirloom.
Since Eve “offered the apple,” women have carried shame simply for being born female.

It manifests as depression.
As addiction.
As perfectionism.
As playing small.
As apologizing for your existence.

It’s time to stop letting shame write your story.

In my latest blog post, I pull back the curtain on how shame hides in plain sight—and how to finally release it.

I even share a powerful healing tool:
The Emotional Transformative Release Technique — 2 MP3s + eBook transcript that guide you to uncover and release the shame that’s kept you stuck.

Because your birthright is FREEDOM—not guilt.

👉 Visit the blog now to begin your release:
https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG

📌 TAG a woman who’s ready to let go of shame and reclaim her worth.
Drop a 💎 if you felt this in your soul.

#WomensEmpowerment #LetGoOfShame #ConfidenceCoach #SelfLoveJourney #EmotionalHealing #ReleaseShame #GestaltTherapy #JanDeelstra #WingedWomenAcademy #HealingTools #SelfWorthMatters #ConfidenceForWomen #BornWorthy #TraumaHealing #GenerationalHealing #InnerWork #ShadowWorkForWomen #DivineFeminineHealing #EmotionalFreedom #ReclaimYourPower #AuthenticLiving
  • So THIS happened: 
"I feel like you were talking directly to me," she said about today's blog post.

That's really the point, isn't it?

As women, we've been taught to dis-own chunks of who we are REALLY. 

And many of us are remembering who we are; we are claiming the parts of us that have been discarded, or buried so deeply that we've long forgotten to remember those pieces of us—the bits that make us who we are.

Today's blog post, is about the sacred art of reclaiming the Self: The divine feminine. The WHOLE you. 

I hope you'll enjoy it. I probably AM speaking directly to YOU...

While you're there, be sure to SUBSCRIBE so everytime I'm speaking "directly to you" you will know it.

xo, j.

PS~ Tell a friend...

→https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG← #CopyPaste

#reclaimingme #reclaimingmylife #reclaimingmyfemininegoddesspower #reclaimingmyfeminineenergy #shewhoremembers #jandeelstra #empoweredwomen #womensempowerment #womensupportingwomen
  • You were never meant to shrink to fit the mold—you were born to melt it down and forge your own crown.

This is your reminder: You don’t have to play small to be accepted. You were made to reign in your radiant, golden truth. 

Want more? Go to: https://JanDeelstra.com/blog

#ownyourpower #divinefemininerising #breakthemold #crownyourself #feminineleadership #wingedwomen #AuthenticAF #WomensEmpowerment #unapologeticallyyou #confidenceisqueen #goldengoddess
If you're in the Northern Hemisphere, enjoy the longest day of the year. There's something soul-feeding about today, so take some time to enjoy!
Happy Solstice!

#solstice
#longestday #longestdayoftheyear
#summerlovin #summervibes
If you're in the Northern Hemisphere, enjoy the longest day of the year. There's something soul-feeding about today, so take some time to enjoy! Happy Solstice! #solstice #longestday #longestdayoftheyear #summerlovin #summervibes
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It's Memorial Day weekend in the States, and that means "woo hoo summer is here!"

It also means, we honor those who fought and died to defend democracy—something that has never appeared so fragile as it is now.

My blog post today is a stream of consciousness that came from my morning meditation. I am reminded to pick only gently at the scabs of loss, and to honor the memory of those who have passed, from war and other causes.

If you're one of the millions celebrating the onset of Summer, take a beat and remember the reason for the holiday. 

And then, enjoy the festivities...

To read the blog post, go to: 
https://jandeelstra.com/wounds/

#memorialday #memories #inlovingmemory #healingjourney #healing #lossiscumulative #jandeelstra
It's Memorial Day weekend in the States, and that means "woo hoo summer is here!" It also means, we honor those who fought and died to defend democracy—something that has never appeared so fragile as it is now. My blog post today is a stream of consciousness that came from my morning meditation. I am reminded to pick only gently at the scabs of loss, and to honor the memory of those who have passed, from war and other causes. If you're one of the millions celebrating the onset of Summer, take a beat and remember the reason for the holiday. And then, enjoy the festivities… To read the blog post, go to: https://jandeelstra.com/wounds/ #memorialday #memories #inlovingmemory #healingjourney #healing #lossiscumulative #jandeelstra
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Hey, I'm looking for no more than 3-5 women who are ready to break free of whatever is holding you back from living life to the fullest.
You’ve felt the chains long enough—self-doubt, fear, playing small.
In just 90 days or less, we end that "stuck" cycle.
My signature breakthrough program is normally $2997
—Today? $888.
This offer vanishes when my schedule fills.
DM “empowered” now if you’re ready to rise. @jan_deelstra
Subject to interview to see of we're a good fit for services, and to space constraints.
Learn more at https://JanDeelstra.com and complete an online application.
Hey, I'm looking for no more than 3-5 women who are ready to break free of whatever is holding you back from living life to the fullest. You’ve felt the chains long enough—self-doubt, fear, playing small. In just 90 days or less, we end that "stuck" cycle. My signature breakthrough program is normally $2997 —Today? $888. This offer vanishes when my schedule fills. DM “empowered” now if you’re ready to rise. @jan_deelstra Subject to interview to see of we're a good fit for services, and to space constraints. Learn more at https://JanDeelstra.com and complete an online application.
4 weeks ago
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When "SUCCESS" isn't enough, there is a hidden longing that gnaws inside, and it's time to address that longing.
Read more on the blog:
https://jandeelstra.com/when-success-isnt-enough/

#womensupportingwomen #womensempowerment #womensempowermentcoach
#womenempoweringwomen #tipsforsuccess #tipsforwomen #supportforsuccessfulwomen
#womeninspiringwomen #youarenotbroken #selflove #selfawareness #confidence #womensconfidencecoach #whensuccessisntenough
When "SUCCESS" isn't enough, there is a hidden longing that gnaws inside, and it's time to address that longing. Read more on the blog: https://jandeelstra.com/when-success-isnt-enough/ #womensupportingwomen #womensempowerment #womensempowermentcoach #womenempoweringwomen #tipsforsuccess #tipsforwomen #supportforsuccessfulwomen #womeninspiringwomen #youarenotbroken #selflove #selfawareness #confidence #womensconfidencecoach #whensuccessisntenough
1 month ago
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Live life like you mean it.

Not halfway.
Not waiting for the right time, or the perfect body, or someone else's permission.
Not stuck in roles that feel more like cages than callings.

This is your one, sacred, unrepeatable life.
And that whisper you keep hearing?
It’s your soul reminding you:
You were made for more.

✨ More depth.
✨ More confidence.
✨ More intimacy with your truth.
✨ More joy that doesn’t require justification.

You didn’t come this far just to plateau in a pretty prison. You came to RISE.
To own your voice. To love out loud. To live like you mean it.

And if you’re a woman who has checked all the boxes—career, home, success on paper—but still feels a silent ache inside, you're not alone.

You’re exactly who I created Winged-Women™ Academy for.

At JanDeelstra.com, you’ll find transformative tools, empowering courses, and deeply healing words that awaken what’s already within you—your confidence, your clarity, your radiance.

This isn’t about fixing you. You were never broken.
It’s about unleashing the real you—the one who has quietly waited beneath the surface to finally exhale.

💻 Visit JanDeelstra.com today and take the next bold step toward your most authentic, unapologetic self.

Because you deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

You didn’t come here to merely exist.
You came here to live like you mean it.

#LiveLikeYouMeanIt #WingedWomen #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceIsQueen #SelfLoveRevolution #SoulAwakening #JanDeelstra #DivineFeminine #LiveYourTruth #UnapologeticallyYou #EmpoweredWoman #LifeOnPurpose #HealGrowRise #ManifestationCoach #ConfidenceCoach #WomenSupportingWomen
Live life like you mean it. Not halfway. Not waiting for the right time, or the perfect body, or someone else's permission. Not stuck in roles that feel more like cages than callings. This is your one, sacred, unrepeatable life. And that whisper you keep hearing? It’s your soul reminding you: You were made for more. ✨ More depth. ✨ More confidence. ✨ More intimacy with your truth. ✨ More joy that doesn’t require justification. You didn’t come this far just to plateau in a pretty prison. You came to RISE. To own your voice. To love out loud. To live like you mean it. And if you’re a woman who has checked all the boxes—career, home, success on paper—but still feels a silent ache inside, you're not alone. You’re exactly who I created Winged-Women™ Academy for. At JanDeelstra.com, you’ll find transformative tools, empowering courses, and deeply healing words that awaken what’s already within you—your confidence, your clarity, your radiance. This isn’t about fixing you. You were never broken. It’s about unleashing the real you—the one who has quietly waited beneath the surface to finally exhale. 💻 Visit JanDeelstra.com today and take the next bold step toward your most authentic, unapologetic self. Because you deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside. You didn’t come here to merely exist. You came here to live like you mean it. #LiveLikeYouMeanIt #WingedWomen #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceIsQueen #SelfLoveRevolution #SoulAwakening #JanDeelstra #DivineFeminine #LiveYourTruth #UnapologeticallyYou #EmpoweredWoman #LifeOnPurpose #HealGrowRise #ManifestationCoach #ConfidenceCoach #WomenSupportingWomen
2 months ago
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What Cinco de Mayo Can Teach You About Quiet Confidence

On this Cinco de Mayo, I honor the rising feminine—the quiet storms, the sacred risers, the women who reclaim their power without applause.

Most people think Cinco de Mayo is just margaritas and mariachi. But its real meaning? Victory against the odds.🔥

It commemorates a wildly outnumbered army that refused to believe they were already defeated. They didn’t wait to feel “ready.” They just rose up—and won.

Sound familiar?

Because I work with brilliant, soulful women—women who look successful on the outside but carry invisible battles on the inside.

They’ve:
✨ Raised families on their own
✨ Walked away from lives that looked perfect but felt like prisons
✨ Survived betrayal, burnout, and breakdowns—without missing a beat

No fanfare. No celebration. Just quiet courage.

So today, on a day that honors unexpected triumph, I invite YOU to celebrate the quiet storm inside you.

Confidence isn’t loud. It isn’t perfect.
It’s a whisper that says: I’m rising anyway.

You may not have the medals or the marching band, but you are a force to be reckoned with.

🦋 Your story matters.
🦋 Your strength is sacred.
🦋 And your time? It’s NOW.

This isn't about bravado. It's about finally recognizing that the woman who’s always held it together… deserves to be fully seen, fully expressed, and fully supported.

If you’re ready to reclaim your feminine fire, you’ll want to read today’s new post over at the blog.

It’s a love letter to the woman who’s still rising—one quiet victory at a time.

Tap the link in bio or head straight to: https://jandeelstra.com/blog

You are not an "underdog". YOU are a Sacred Riser: A woman who allows her passion to fuel her purpose.
You are an unseen powerhouse—until now. 

#WingedWomen #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceIsKey #FemininePower #SelfWorth #ConfidenceCoach #RiseUp #UnapologeticallyYou #EmpoweredWomenEmpowerWomen #CincoDeMayo #DivineFeminine #HealingJourney #QuietConfidence #SelfLoveJourney #PersonalPower #SuccessWithSoul #JanDeelstra #WingedWomenAcademy #MoneyAndLove #ConfidenceTools #TransformYourLife #WomenWhoRise
What Cinco de Mayo Can Teach You About Quiet Confidence On this Cinco de Mayo, I honor the rising feminine—the quiet storms, the sacred risers, the women who reclaim their power without applause. Most people think Cinco de Mayo is just margaritas and mariachi. But its real meaning? Victory against the odds.🔥 It commemorates a wildly outnumbered army that refused to believe they were already defeated. They didn’t wait to feel “ready.” They just rose up—and won. Sound familiar? Because I work with brilliant, soulful women—women who look successful on the outside but carry invisible battles on the inside. They’ve: ✨ Raised families on their own ✨ Walked away from lives that looked perfect but felt like prisons ✨ Survived betrayal, burnout, and breakdowns—without missing a beat No fanfare. No celebration. Just quiet courage. So today, on a day that honors unexpected triumph, I invite YOU to celebrate the quiet storm inside you. Confidence isn’t loud. It isn’t perfect. It’s a whisper that says: I’m rising anyway. You may not have the medals or the marching band, but you are a force to be reckoned with. 🦋 Your story matters. 🦋 Your strength is sacred. 🦋 And your time? It’s NOW. This isn't about bravado. It's about finally recognizing that the woman who’s always held it together… deserves to be fully seen, fully expressed, and fully supported. If you’re ready to reclaim your feminine fire, you’ll want to read today’s new post over at the blog. It’s a love letter to the woman who’s still rising—one quiet victory at a time. Tap the link in bio or head straight to: https://jandeelstra.com/blog You are not an "underdog". YOU are a Sacred Riser: A woman who allows her passion to fuel her purpose. You are an unseen powerhouse—until now. #WingedWomen #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceIsKey #FemininePower #SelfWorth #ConfidenceCoach #RiseUp #UnapologeticallyYou #EmpoweredWomenEmpowerWomen #CincoDeMayo #DivineFeminine #HealingJourney #QuietConfidence #SelfLoveJourney #PersonalPower #SuccessWithSoul #JanDeelstra #WingedWomenAcademy #MoneyAndLove #ConfidenceTools #TransformYourLife #WomenWhoRise
2 months ago
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SHAME is Stealing Your Life. Here’s How to Take It Back.

You may not even realize you’re carrying it…

But if you’ve ever:

✨ Felt “not enough” no matter how much you do
✨ Struggled with money, love, or your weight
✨ Sabotaged your success without knowing why
✨ Stayed silent when you wanted to speak
✨ Felt guilt just for wanting more out of life…

The truth is, you're probably living with shame that’s not even yours.

Shame is a silent saboteur passed down like a family heirloom.
Since Eve “offered the apple,” women have carried shame simply for being born female.

It manifests as depression.
As addiction.
As perfectionism.
As playing small.
As apologizing for your existence.

It’s time to stop letting shame write your story.

In my latest blog post, I pull back the curtain on how shame hides in plain sight—and how to finally release it.

I even share a powerful healing tool:
The Emotional Transformative Release Technique — 2 MP3s + eBook transcript that guide you to uncover and release the shame that’s kept you stuck.

Because your birthright is FREEDOM—not guilt.

👉 Visit the blog now to begin your release:
https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG

📌 TAG a woman who’s ready to let go of shame and reclaim her worth.
Drop a 💎 if you felt this in your soul.

#WomensEmpowerment #LetGoOfShame #ConfidenceCoach #SelfLoveJourney #EmotionalHealing #ReleaseShame #GestaltTherapy #JanDeelstra #WingedWomenAcademy #HealingTools #SelfWorthMatters #ConfidenceForWomen #BornWorthy #TraumaHealing #GenerationalHealing #InnerWork #ShadowWorkForWomen #DivineFeminineHealing #EmotionalFreedom #ReclaimYourPower #AuthenticLiving
SHAME is Stealing Your Life. Here’s How to Take It Back. You may not even realize you’re carrying it… But if you’ve ever: ✨ Felt “not enough” no matter how much you do ✨ Struggled with money, love, or your weight ✨ Sabotaged your success without knowing why ✨ Stayed silent when you wanted to speak ✨ Felt guilt just for wanting more out of life… The truth is, you're probably living with shame that’s not even yours. Shame is a silent saboteur passed down like a family heirloom. Since Eve “offered the apple,” women have carried shame simply for being born female. It manifests as depression. As addiction. As perfectionism. As playing small. As apologizing for your existence. It’s time to stop letting shame write your story. In my latest blog post, I pull back the curtain on how shame hides in plain sight—and how to finally release it. I even share a powerful healing tool: The Emotional Transformative Release Technique — 2 MP3s + eBook transcript that guide you to uncover and release the shame that’s kept you stuck. Because your birthright is FREEDOM—not guilt. 👉 Visit the blog now to begin your release: https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG 📌 TAG a woman who’s ready to let go of shame and reclaim her worth. Drop a 💎 if you felt this in your soul. #WomensEmpowerment #LetGoOfShame #ConfidenceCoach #SelfLoveJourney #EmotionalHealing #ReleaseShame #GestaltTherapy #JanDeelstra #WingedWomenAcademy #HealingTools #SelfWorthMatters #ConfidenceForWomen #BornWorthy #TraumaHealing #GenerationalHealing #InnerWork #ShadowWorkForWomen #DivineFeminineHealing #EmotionalFreedom #ReclaimYourPower #AuthenticLiving
2 months ago
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So THIS happened: 
"I feel like you were talking directly to me," she said about today's blog post.

That's really the point, isn't it?

As women, we've been taught to dis-own chunks of who we are REALLY. 

And many of us are remembering who we are; we are claiming the parts of us that have been discarded, or buried so deeply that we've long forgotten to remember those pieces of us—the bits that make us who we are.

Today's blog post, is about the sacred art of reclaiming the Self: The divine feminine. The WHOLE you. 

I hope you'll enjoy it. I probably AM speaking directly to YOU...

While you're there, be sure to SUBSCRIBE so everytime I'm speaking "directly to you" you will know it.

xo, j.

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So THIS happened: "I feel like you were talking directly to me," she said about today's blog post. That's really the point, isn't it? As women, we've been taught to dis-own chunks of who we are REALLY. And many of us are remembering who we are; we are claiming the parts of us that have been discarded, or buried so deeply that we've long forgotten to remember those pieces of us—the bits that make us who we are. Today's blog post, is about the sacred art of reclaiming the Self: The divine feminine. The WHOLE you. I hope you'll enjoy it. I probably AM speaking directly to YOU… While you're there, be sure to SUBSCRIBE so everytime I'm speaking "directly to you" you will know it. xo, j. PS~ Tell a friend… →https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG← #CopyPaste #reclaimingme #reclaimingmylife #reclaimingmyfemininegoddesspower #reclaimingmyfeminineenergy #shewhoremembers #jandeelstra #empoweredwomen #womensempowerment #womensupportingwomen
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You were never meant to shrink to fit the mold—you were born to melt it down and forge your own crown. This is your reminder: You don’t have to play small to be accepted. You were made to reign in your radiant, golden truth. Want more? Go to: https://JanDeelstra.com/blog #ownyourpower #divinefemininerising #breakthemold #crownyourself #feminineleadership #wingedwomen #AuthenticAF #WomensEmpowerment #unapologeticallyyou #confidenceisqueen #goldengoddess
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