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Do You Have Shame Around the Issue of Money?
Money. It’s a topic that can spark a myriad of emotions — pride, anxiety, hope, insecurity, and for many women, even shame. Have you ever felt embarrassed about asking for a raise, stressed about paying bills, or guilty for spending money on yourself, insecure and guilty about not affording to pay your own way through life? If so, you’re not alone. Money shame runs deep, often stemming from ancestral lessons, societal pressures, and deeply internalized limiting beliefs.
But here’s the most important truth: Money is just energy. It’s a frequency that reflects your relationship with yourself. Notice immediately. how that truth lands in your body and mind: Do you shrug it away as being “mumbo-jumbo”? It’s not! And the good news? You can heal your money story.
The Roots of Money Shame
From an early age, many of us absorb unspoken (or explicitly stated) lessons about money:
“Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
“It’s hard to make ends meet.”
“Rich people are greedy.”
“Clean your plate.”
“You’ve got to work hard for the money.”
These phrases may seem harmless, but over time, they embed themselves in our psyche, creating limiting beliefs that whisper: You don’t deserve abundance. But you do. And it’s time you unlearned anything else that keeps you in the vibration of money shame.
For women especially, the shame around money can be amplified by cultural norms. Historically, women were often excluded from financial decision-making, creating a cycle of dependency that’s hard to break. If your ancestors struggled to survive or had to sacrifice their dreams due to financial limitations, that energetic imprint may still be influencing you today.
In my own life, I came from a long line of pioneer stock women who “walked across the prairie pulling handcarts” to make a better life elsewhere. Stories of hardship and struggle were the thickest thread in the weave of my ancestral tapestry. And those stories of how difficult life is, had to be released, lest my life continuously be “difficult.” It takes continuous mindfulness–awareness as perhaps the greatest, most valuable tool in my self-love toolbox–to be aware of any thoughts that are best observed, forgiven, healed, and ultimately released.
How Money Reflects Self-Love
What I hope to convey to you, is that your relationship with money is a mirror of your relationship with yourself. How you treat money often reflects how you value yourself. Thus, money is self-love. You deserve both money and love….
Think about it:
Do you give away your time and energy without asking for fair compensation?
Do you avoid looking at your bank account, as though ignoring it will make the problem disappear?
Do you feel guilty when you indulge in something that brings you joy?
These guilt and avoidance behaviors are often rooted in a lack of self-worth. Healing your money story isn’t just about balancing a budget or earning more — it’s about recognizing that you are worthy of abundance. When you start to love and value yourself, your financial reality begins to shift.
Money as a Frequency
Let’s demystify money for a moment. At its core, money is a form of energy exchange. Just as you tune a radio to pick up a specific frequency, you can align your own energy with the frequency of abundance. This means releasing the shame, guilt, and fear that keep you stuck in scarcity and stepping into a vibration of confidence, gratitude, and openness to receive. You deserve money and love (Have I mentioned that before?).
Healing your money story starts with identifying the beliefs and patterns that no longer serve you. It means rewriting those narratives and embracing the idea that having money is not only okay but a form of self-care and self-love. And not to be offensive, but I’ll state the obvious again: You deserve money and love. Healing money shame is a powerful act of self-care.
Your Path to Financial Empowerment
Imagine a life where money flows to you with ease. Where you no longer feel guilty for investing in yourself. Where abundance isn’t just a dream but a reality. This isn’t wishful thinking — it’s possible. And it starts with you.
In my book, INFINITE PIE: From Finance to Romance, the Parallel Feminine Frequency of Money & Love, I dive deep into the connection between your self-worth, your love life, and your financial well-being. Through practical exercises, empowering stories, and insights that challenge the status quo, you’ll learn how to:
Uncover and release limiting beliefs about money.
Understand the energetic frequency of abundance.
Align your financial habits with self-love and empowerment.
Re-write your money story on your terms.
Create a life that reflects the love and abundance you deserve.
Take the First Step
Healing your relationship with money is one of the most powerful acts of self-love you can undertake. It’s not just about dollars and cents; it’s about valuing yourself enough to claim the abundant life you deserve. When you really get your mind and heart around that idea that money is self-love, forgive the woman of the past, and step into the new you –a woman who is worthy and deserving, and is now practicing receiving. Because you are worthy. You are deserving of the life you desire….
So, let me ask you again: Do you have shame around the issue of money? If the answer is yes, know that you have the power to transform that shame into confidence, freedom, and joy.
Your journey to financial empowerment and self-love starts here. It’s time to release that shame and own your power! Grab your copy of INFINITE PIE today and step into the abundant, love-filled life you were always meant to live.
When you begin to read the stories of how money is an energy which you can either enhance or squelch, when you understand the parallels between the frequency of money and love–including self-love, you may see your own story amidst the words of others. If you’re not experiencing financial freedom and rich relationships with others and with your Self, this is the book for you. INFINITE PIE: From Finance to Romance, is the self-love tool that you may have not even known you needed, until now. Grab it today. Celebrate your new story from finance to romance….
Live life like you mean it.
Not halfway.
Not waiting for the right time, or the perfect body, or someone else's permission.
Not stuck in roles that feel more like cages than callings.
This is your one, sacred, unrepeatable life.
And that whisper you keep hearing?
It’s your soul reminding you:
You were made for more.
✨ More depth.
✨ More confidence.
✨ More intimacy with your truth.
✨ More joy that doesn’t require justification.
You didn’t come this far just to plateau in a pretty prison. You came to RISE.
To own your voice. To love out loud. To live like you mean it.
And if you’re a woman who has checked all the boxes—career, home, success on paper—but still feels a silent ache inside, you're not alone.
You’re exactly who I created Winged-Women™ Academy for.
At JanDeelstra.com, you’ll find transformative tools, empowering courses, and deeply healing words that awaken what’s already within you—your confidence, your clarity, your radiance.
This isn’t about fixing you. You were never broken.
It’s about unleashing the real you—the one who has quietly waited beneath the surface to finally exhale.
💻 Visit JanDeelstra.com today and take the next bold step toward your most authentic, unapologetic self.
Because you deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
You didn’t come here to merely exist.
You came here to live like you mean it.
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What Cinco de Mayo Can Teach You About Quiet Confidence
On this Cinco de Mayo, I honor the rising feminine—the quiet storms, the sacred risers, the women who reclaim their power without applause.
Most people think Cinco de Mayo is just margaritas and mariachi. But its real meaning? Victory against the odds.🔥
It commemorates a wildly outnumbered army that refused to believe they were already defeated. They didn’t wait to feel “ready.” They just rose up—and won.
Sound familiar?
Because I work with brilliant, soulful women—women who look successful on the outside but carry invisible battles on the inside.
They’ve:
✨ Raised families on their own
✨ Walked away from lives that looked perfect but felt like prisons
✨ Survived betrayal, burnout, and breakdowns—without missing a beat
No fanfare. No celebration. Just quiet courage.
So today, on a day that honors unexpected triumph, I invite YOU to celebrate the quiet storm inside you.
Confidence isn’t loud. It isn’t perfect.
It’s a whisper that says: I’m rising anyway.
You may not have the medals or the marching band, but you are a force to be reckoned with.
🦋 Your story matters.
🦋 Your strength is sacred.
🦋 And your time? It’s NOW.
This isn't about bravado. It's about finally recognizing that the woman who’s always held it together… deserves to be fully seen, fully expressed, and fully supported.
If you’re ready to reclaim your feminine fire, you’ll want to read today’s new post over at the blog.
It’s a love letter to the woman who’s still rising—one quiet victory at a time.
Tap the link in bio or head straight to: https://jandeelstra.com/blog
You are not an "underdog". YOU are a Sacred Riser: A woman who allows her passion to fuel her purpose.
You are an unseen powerhouse—until now.
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SHAME is Stealing Your Life. Here’s How to Take It Back.
You may not even realize you’re carrying it…
But if you’ve ever:
✨ Felt “not enough” no matter how much you do
✨ Struggled with money, love, or your weight
✨ Sabotaged your success without knowing why
✨ Stayed silent when you wanted to speak
✨ Felt guilt just for wanting more out of life…
The truth is, you're probably living with shame that’s not even yours.
Shame is a silent saboteur passed down like a family heirloom.
Since Eve “offered the apple,” women have carried shame simply for being born female.
It manifests as depression.
As addiction.
As perfectionism.
As playing small.
As apologizing for your existence.
It’s time to stop letting shame write your story.
In my latest blog post, I pull back the curtain on how shame hides in plain sight—and how to finally release it.
I even share a powerful healing tool:
The Emotional Transformative Release Technique — 2 MP3s + eBook transcript that guide you to uncover and release the shame that’s kept you stuck.
Because your birthright is FREEDOM—not guilt.
👉 Visit the blog now to begin your release:
https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG
📌 TAG a woman who’s ready to let go of shame and reclaim her worth.
Drop a 💎 if you felt this in your soul.
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So THIS happened:
"I feel like you were talking directly to me," she said about today's blog post.
That's really the point, isn't it?
As women, we've been taught to dis-own chunks of who we are REALLY.
And many of us are remembering who we are; we are claiming the parts of us that have been discarded, or buried so deeply that we've long forgotten to remember those pieces of us—the bits that make us who we are.
Today's blog post, is about the sacred art of reclaiming the Self: The divine feminine. The WHOLE you.
I hope you'll enjoy it. I probably AM speaking directly to YOU…
While you're there, be sure to SUBSCRIBE so everytime I'm speaking "directly to you" you will know it.
xo, j.
PS~ Tell a friend…
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You were never meant to shrink to fit the mold—you were born to melt it down and forge your own crown.
This is your reminder: You don’t have to play small to be accepted. You were made to reign in your radiant, golden truth.
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Beltane Fire: Where Passion Meets Purpose
There’s a fire rising within you… Can you feel it?
We are standing at the sacred threshold of Beltane — the halfway point between spring’s awakening and summer’s full bloom. This ancient Celtic celebration is a call to ignite your inner flame, awaken your sensual feminine power, and say YES to the life that’s longing to bloom from your soul.
Beltane is not just a festival. It’s a remembrance.
A remembrance of when women danced barefoot under moonlight, flower-crowned and wild-hearted.
A remembrance of when your voice was honored, your intuition revered, your desires holy.
This is the way of the goddess — and she is rising in you.
On the blog today, we dive into the deeper meaning of Beltane, the sacred feminine archetypes it awakens, and how you can step into your fullest, most magnetic self — without apology, without shame, without delay.
🔥 If you’ve been craving a deeper connection to your feminine essence…
🌺 If you’ve felt the stirrings of something ancient and powerful in your bones…
💗 If you know it’s time to stop shrinking and start shining…
Then this post is for YOU.
👉 Head to https://jandeelstra.com/blog
You’ll learn how this sacred portal into summer is the perfect time to awaken your authenticity, reclaim your inner wisdom, and honor the parts of yourself you’ve buried too long.
Because now?
It’s your time to rise.
🔥 You are the flame. You are the dance. You are the goddess. 🔥
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Be present, because now is all you've got. And that's a lot.
So what will you do with your "NOW"?
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✨ The Divine Feminine is Rising ✨
For thousands of years, the Divine Feminine was revered—a powerful, intuitive force guiding life in harmony with nature. She was the keeper of wisdom, the healer, the creator, the nurturer, and the warrior. Her energy was balanced with the masculine, and together, they formed a world of flow, connection, and abundance.
But then, something changed. Fear replaced reverence. Control replaced harmony. The feminine voice was silenced, dismissed, and suppressed. Intuition was ridiculed. Women who honored their inner wisdom were labeled as dangerous, and many paid the ultimate price for their knowing.
Yet, the Divine Feminine was never truly lost—only forced into the shadows. And now, she is re-emerging, stronger than ever.
It’s time to re-member who we are.
This month, I’m dedicating my blog to reawakening the Divine Feminine within. We’re not just talking about goddess energy—we’re embodying it. We’re reclaiming our intuition, our creativity, our ability to heal and lead in a way that aligns with nature’s flow.
💫 We will explore ancient feminine wisdom.
💫 We will reconnect with the sacred power within us.
💫 We will shift from repression to radiant expression.
The time for merely knowing is over—it’s time for being.
Are you ready to reclaim the Divine Feminine within you? Then join me for this powerful journey.
✨ Read the first post now & SUBSCRIBE at: https://JanDeelstra.com/BLOG. ✨
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✨ The Divine Feminine is Rising ✨ And she's being showcased this month with a new goddess spotlighted DAILY.
WHY?
For thousands of years, the Divine Feminine was revered—a powerful, intuitive force guiding life in harmony with nature. She was the keeper of wisdom, the healer, the creator, the nurturer, and the warrior. Her energy was balanced with the masculine, and together, they formed a world of flow, connection, and abundance.
But then, something changed.
Fear replaced reverence. Control replaced harmony. The feminine voice was silenced, dismissed, and suppressed. Intuition was ridiculed. Women who honored their inner wisdom were labeled as dangerous, and many paid the ultimate price for their knowing.
Yet, the Divine Feminine was never truly lost—only forced into the shadows. And now, she is re-emerging, stronger than ever.
It’s time to re-member who we are.
This month, I’m dedicating my blog to reawakening the Divine Feminine within. We’re not just talking about goddess energy—we’re embodying it. We’re reclaiming our intuition, our creativity, our ability to heal and lead in a way that aligns with nature’s flow.
💫 We will explore ancient feminine wisdom.
💫 We will reconnect with the sacred power within us.
💫 We will shift from repression to radiant expression.
The time for merely knowing is over—it’s time for being.
Are you ready to reclaim the Divine Feminine within you? Then join me for this powerful journey.
✨ Read the most current post now & SUBSCRIBE at JanDeelstra.com/BLOG. There are less than two weeks to go, and there's a lot of goddess energy to check out now!
Which Goddess will YOU embody?
Drop a 🔥 in the comments if you feel the rising!
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