Jan Deelstra

Author of Women's Empowerment Books, Courses, Services & More

Unleash your inner goddess power and transform your story into a masterpiece of confidence, self love, abundance and limitless possibilities—because YOU are the author of your own extraordinary life

Did you know that there is a feminine frequency of abundance that flows whether or not you tap into it, and even if you’re not aware of it? Aligning your energy for love and money makes the abundance flow naturally, without effort. And yet, many women haven’t understood that this universal flow exists, and that when we’re out of alignment, life just isn’t as smooth…

There comes a time in every woman’s life when she begins to question why abundance—in love, money, or both—seems to flow so easily for some yet feels like a constant struggle for others. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. It’s a journey I’ve walked myself, rising from a life of insecurity, poverty, and victimization to become the confident, empowered founder of Winged-Women™ Academy. Today, as an international best-selling author and advocate for women, I’m here to share a transformational truth: your personal energy—your frequency—is the key to unlocking the abundance you deserve.

In my book, INFINITE PIE: From Finance to Romance, the Parallel Feminine Frequency of Money & Love, I delve deeply into the interconnectedness of love and money, revealing how your internal beliefs and energy patterns dictate your external reality. Let’s explore this concept together and uncover actionable steps to start shifting your frequency today.

Why Confidence is the Foundation of Abundance

At the heart of every struggle with love or money lies a core issue: confidence. Confidence isn’t just about how you present yourself to the world; it’s about how you perceive your own worth. When your inner voice whispers that you’re not enough—not deserving of love, financial stability, or success—you unconsciously repel the very things you desire most. Sometimes, the lack of confidence is overtly edident; it may be lying below the surface of your awareness. Often, self-awareness is the place to start your abundance journey.

The other side of lack or yearning, is when you cultivate unwavering confidence, and you send a clear signal to the Universe: “I am worthy. I am ready to receive.” This energetic shift is profound. It’s not just about positive thinking; it’s about embodying the energy of abundance and aligning your powerful personal feminine frequency with the flow of the Universe.

The Energy of Money and Love: Two Sides of the Same Coin

Have you ever noticed how similar your struggles with love and money can feel? The fear of not having enough, the patterns of giving too much, the anxiety about losing what you do have—these themes often mirror each other. That’s because money and love operate on the same energetic frequency. In fact, over the forty years I’ve been coaching and consulting women, only once in all that time did a client tell me she was great at making money, but her love life always failed her. To rectify that complaint, we identified an imbalance of energy investment. She was a bit of an over-achiever and a clear workaholic. Quickly, we determined an actionable process of creating balance in her life, and now she enjoys abundance of both love and money!

In INFINITE PIE, I describe this connection as the “parallel feminine frequency.” Just as a radio must be tuned to the right station to receive clear sound, your personal energy must align with the frequency of abundance to attract both financial security and fulfilling relationships. When your energy is scattered by limiting beliefs or negative self-talk, it’s like trying to tune into abundance while stuck between static-filled stations.

Identifying Limiting Beliefs: Are You Repelling Abundance?

Most of us aren’t even aware of the beliefs we’ve inherited about money and love. Perhaps you grew up hearing phrases like “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” or as was depicted in the previous illustration of my client, “You have to choose between career and love.” These messages sink deep into our subconscious, creating barriers that prevent us from fully embracing abundance.

Here are some common limiting beliefs to reflect on:

  • “There’s never enough money.”
  • “I’m too independent; love will make me weak.”
  • “People with money are selfish or greedy.”
  • “I’m not attractive/successful/smart enough to be loved.”

Recognizing these beliefs is the first step to dismantling them. In INFINITE PIE, I guide readers through exercises to identify and release these hidden blocks, replacing them with empowering truths.

Raising Your Frequency: Practical Steps to Shift Your Energy

The good news is that you have the power to recalibrate your frequency and attract the abundance you desire. Here are three actionable steps to get started:

1. Practice Self-Awareness

Awareness is the foundation of transformation. Begin by observing your thoughts, feelings, and actions around money and love. Are you operating from a place of fear or faith? Do you view money as a source of stress or an opportunity for freedom? Journaling can be a powerful tool to uncover these patterns.

2. Cultivate Confidence

Confidence is the energetic magnet for abundance. Start by celebrating small wins and reframing self-doubt. Remember: how you do anything is how you do everything. Approach even the smallest tasks with intention and self-assurance, and watch how this energy spills into every area of your life.

3. Align with Abundance

One of the most transformative lessons in INFINITE PIE is the importance of “Mad Money”—a small, secret stash of cash that represents financial independence and possibility. This simple act shifts your mindset from scarcity to security. Similarly, prioritize acts of self-love to affirm your worthiness in relationships.

Transformational Stories: Proof that Change is Possible

Throughout INFINITE PIE, I share real-life stories—including my own—of women who transformed their lives by aligning their energy with abundance. One client, for example, overcame a lifelong belief that “money is the root of all evil” and began viewing wealth as a tool for generosity and growth. She not only doubled her income within a year but also found a partner who respected her newfound confidence and independence.

These stories are not just inspirational; they’re evidence that when you shift your frequency, the Universe responds.

**The Transformational Power of **INFINITE PIE

INFINITE PIE: From Finance to Romance, the Parallel Feminine Frequency of Money & Love is more than a book; it’s a guide to reclaiming your power and creating a life of abundance. Packed with quotes from visionaries like Maya Angelou, Clare Boothe Luce, Socrates, and more, it contains practical exercises, lists, and quizzes that were once reserved for only my top paying clients, and it’s filled with soul-stirring insights; in short, it’s a resource you’ll return to again and again.

Whether you’re looking to heal your relationship with money, attract a loving partnership, or simply step into your highest self, this book offers the tools and wisdom to make it happen.

Your Journey to Abundance Starts Now

Imagine a life where love and money flow effortlessly into your experience—a life where you feel confident, empowered, and aligned with the frequency of abundance. This isn’t just a dream; it’s your birthright. And the journey begins with a single step.

If you’re ready to break free from limiting beliefs and step into the woman you’re meant to be, I invite you to explore the transformational power of INFINITE PIE. Your future self will thank you.

Order your copy today on Amazon and start aligning your energy with the abundance you deserve.

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INFINITE PIE: From Finance to Romance, the Parallel Feminine Frequency of Money & Love

My passion is to reach and positively impact each and every woman who doesn’t know her worth. Abundance of money and love are the things dreams are made of, and when you gain introspection, when you take the steps to identify ways in which you are blocking the flow of abundance, and when you then take the actions to lift your self-esteem and confidence, life gets better. This is my desire for you: Live your best life possible. And if I can help with that, I’m here for you.

Jan Deelstra

By the way, this would make a powerful bookclub selection for women who are ready to own their power!

Also, because you have read this far, I want to share a little secret with you…I have an offer for the Winged-Women™ Wealthy Warrioress Workbook and Audio MP3 that I think you’re really going to be interested in…. If so, click the link to see the secret offer (it hasn’t yet been posted anywhere else!)
xox j.


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