Welcome
Grab your favorite beverage and settle in, because your journey to confidence and real empowerment begins here!
Let me ask you from my heart to yours: Do you recognize your own emotional blocks –inner pockets of unprocessed, stored energy leftover from a past trauma, loss, childhood lesson, or event? This stored, stagnant energy may have been with you since you were an infant, or as recently as yesterday.
I SEE YOU
Regardless of how long you’ve been “stuck” and not really making any real progress towards creating the life you know in your heart that you deserve, or even if you haven’t quite yet identified why you never seem to feel like you’re enough, or maybe you’ve been told that you’re “too much“, I see you. I see you. I hear you. And I know your pain. You are not alone.
Maybe you’re going through life with a low-grade depression; maybe you’re even on the verge of giving up trying to create a better life. You may even be asking, “What’s the point of trying, when nothing changes? “
Do you rationalize staying stuck in unhealthy or unsatisfying relationships or jobs by repeatedly playing mental tapes that say things like, “Better the devil you know” even though you loath the situation you’re in?
Are old stories, apathy, habits, and/or inertia at the wheel of your life?
Chances are, even if you left this particular situation: relationship or job, unless the underlying pattern is addressed, you’ll only re-create the same dysfunctional circumstances with a new equally unsuitable replacement until you recognize your patterns, and finally and permanently break through to the life experience you actually want….
Maybe it’s time you enlisted some guidance & support to create the life you desire (and deserve)…
Whether it’s love, or money, or career, or a feeling of emptiness that led you here to this safe space, I’m glad you’re here. This website came to be out of necessity, and I believe it’s likely the best possible place you can be right now…
I Am here for YOU.
(If you already know you want to work with me, or are curious to learn more about working with me, click below)
Let me share a bit about why I’m here…
Some foundation to let you know who I am –Who am I to give you advice, or guidance, or recommendations, or to suggest the tools and techniques to change your life? My name is Jan Deelstra, and I have been empowering women by way of confidence and self-esteem building since 1984. I’m the author of too many books and eBooks to list here (see the BOOKSHOP).
I’ve worked one-on-one and with groups of women just like you, for forty years now. I’ve been privy to miraculous transformations for thousands of women, each who then rippled out magnificent positive endless changes….
My passionate purpose is to provide proprietary trade tools to women globally, to empower women like you to break free of the invisible shackles that stop true confidence, self-sufficiency, liberation, freedom, emotional well-being, and a beautiful supported life-by-design.
In other words, everything on this website is designed to bolster your confidence, enhance your self-love, and cement your self-worth. The truth is, you ARE enough. You are perfect in your humanness…
…YOU’RE NOT BROKEN….
And yet, even as I tell you that “you’re not broken,” I offer you tools to enhance your life…. Does that feel like a contradiction? It’s not…
I offer you techniques that instruct you to release inner blocks, and then instruct you to immediately fill the resultant vacuum with something rich and delicious that feeds your soul… Here, you’ll learn that while your “authentic self” is beautiful, and is the source of your divine power, you can still take steps to create your enhanced dream life…
If relationships are rocky, or non-existant, I offer you a smorgasbord of unique tools and techniques and guidance to feast on…
Whatever lack you feel, whatever desire you bring, I offer you the means to improve and perfect, and to leave behind whatever is no longer serving you (if it ever did)…
And all you have to do is show up. Show up on this website. Show up and check out the offers to feel which next step to take. Show up and be open. Show up and subscribe to the BLOG. Most importantly, show up for yourself…
Are you ready to step into your power, awaken your inner confidence, and live the life you desire and deserve? This website is for you. Here, you’ll find transformational tools, inspiring books, and life-changing courses tailored for women like you—seeking clarity, strength, and the freedom to thrive. And as you grow your confidence, as you learn to let go of what no longer suits you, as you now step into the woman you have always been meant to be, as you create your delicious life-by-design, I am here to support you.
I offer you techniques that instruct you to release inner blocks, and then instruct you to immediately fill the resultant vacuum with something rich and delicious that feeds your soul… Here, you’ll learn that while your “authentic self” is beautiful, and is the source of your divine power, you can still take steps to create your enhanced dream life.
Key Features That Set Me Apart From Other Coaches
Everything here is designed to enhance your life -whether it’s in the area of love, or money, or a career, or help designing the life you desire (and deserve) we’re here for you with the most effective confidence tools available. That’s because confidence is at the root of everything! From finance to romance, to where and how you live, to your health, your career opportunities, and even to the friends and lovers you acquaint, every area of your life is impacted by your confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, and self-love.
In addition to my world renowned confidential customized coaching packages, you’re offered the following womens’s empowerment wares:
Books to Empower You
As an award-winning international best-selling author, I’ve written books to inspire your self-discovery and transformation. Not sure where to start your journey? Explore the SHOP and find the one that resonates with you!”
Homestudy & Online Courses
Discover COURSES designed to transform your life—from love to money, self-esteem, and more. Whether you prefer self-paced or online learning, there’s something for everyone. New offerings are added regularly, so bookmark this page and check back often to find your perfect fit!
Self-Love Toolbox
Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Imagine releasing shame, guilt, and those limiting beliefs keeping you small. With 40 years of expertise, I’ve curated powerful tools to help you let go, grow, and create the life you deserve. Explore the ‘Self-Love TOOLBOX‘ to start your transformation today!
You Deserve the Life You Desire
Fill your self-love toolbox here!
So much comes into focus when you make the decision to live your best life. Interestingly, the word “decide” means to cut away –Decide to cut away anything that no longer supports your highest good, and the highest good of all.
When you prune away the stories that are stuck in your energetic body, by using time tested self-love techniques, that energy is made available to energize you–releasing inner stuck energy, your life is freed up.
You may have heard that emotion is energy in motion. That emotional energy was never meant to be stagnant or stuck in your mind-body-spirit self. It’s time to set it free.
Start today to fill your self-love toolbox and step into the woman you need to be in order to create the life you dream of.
Check out the TOOLBOX and grab whatever feeds your soul…
Women’s Intuition
If you’re still perusing this website, I encourage you to check in with your mind-body-spirit connection with the Source of all…
What does your feminine intuition tell you about the plethora of offerings on this women’s empowerment website? Do you allow yourself the space and time in your busy schedule –time in which to connect with the infinite flow of abundance? Are you clear about your value? Your worth? Is your heart on board, supporting you to live your best life? Do you immerse in your potential? Do you have a daily practice that feeds your mind-body-spirit whole Self? (Because I am a gestalt* practitioner, you’re going to hear a LOT about the mind-body-spirit connection on this site!)
*Gestalt means “whole” —mind-body-spirit whole. (And YOU are WHOLE & perfect in your humanness.) I’m just here to remind you of your perfection…
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What are you waiting for?
Ready to take the next step? Let’s bring your vision to life! Explore the myriad services and start today to transform your life whether thru personalized coaching, or thru the library of empowering wares.
Together, we’ll make it happen.